Sunday, June 1, 2014

Stories We Tell (2012)

It starts with a man speaking, saying something unusually profound about stories. Then you get the citation – Margaret Atwood. The man is quoting a famous writer. The man himself is an actor, with some fame in Canada. He is Michael Polley, father of actress Sarah Polley, who created and directed Stories We Tell, a documentary – this documentary—about her own family. The next shot is Sarah installing her dad in a fancy recording studio, to do the voice-over for the film. He wrote his lines himself. But is the Atwood epigraph his, or Sarah’s? She’s on camera, too, joking (maybe) that this is both interview and “interrogation.” Stories We Tell claims to be a documentary. Yet here we have started with two professional actors, on camera, speaking words they have thought about beforehand. That’s not deception; it’s a signal. Stories We Tell is more than it appears to be…but of course, the stories people tell always are.

What it appears to be is a documentary about Sarah Polley’s family, focusing on the life and untimely death (from cancer) of her mother, Diane. The film comprises a collection of home movies, pictures, and interviews with “storytellers” (as the credits call them) from Polley family history. These are Sarah’s father, her siblings, some aunts and uncles, and also various colleagues of Michael and Diane (both worked in show business). Sarah, too, is heard asking questions and seen in both archival and present-day footage. Her opening gambit with the storytellers is always the same, however: tell what you know “from the beginning.” The beginning of what? Not Diane’s life, exactly…more, perhaps, their family life. The story seems to really begin when Diane and Michael meet. The children and friends predictably begin with characterizations of the couple; Michael begins with his tale of their meeting. The film is then off and running on a rather predictable track, especially for anyone who follows show-business marriages. What makes Stories We Tell interesting is that it will, in fact, jump that track. How it does so and why I dare not reveal. I will only say that the ground on which Polley’s documentary appears to rest shifts several times over its running. Remember those opening signals…

All this may make it sound like the film is some sort of trick. It isn’t. Some of its surprises are, in some ways, hiding in plain sight. Polley’s aim is not to cheat or disorient, but rather to point up the complexity of any given narrative. Any story is, by its very nature, an act of interpretation, and it is that act of interpretation, rather than any mystery around her mother, that seems to have captured Polley’s attention. She never ducks the fact that her “documentary” is itself a carefully shaped and constructed work of art. At least two interviewees, in fact, call her on it, on camera. And note the way we get “pre-interview” scenes with the family storytellers, self-consciously preparing to talk. One sister is sweating so much with nerves that she changes her clothes. Two of the brothers clearly love the idea of being filmed as raconteurs; they joke and twinkle their way through their sections the way Shelby Foote and Wynton Marsalis did for Ken Burns. Other storytellers object, hesitate, or simply lapse into silence. These moments are important, for the people themselves are at least as much of the story as what they say. 

In the end, Sarah Polley has produced something that is less a documentary of a life than a meditation on many lives, and how those who lived them (including herself) have made narrative sense of them. Does the movie reveal what “really” happened to and with Diane? Maybe. By the end, I didn’t care. The movie instead reveals something more slippery and profound about stories and families and the human experience. It asks us to accept the stories its participants tell not because the movie presents them as solidly true, but because each teller believes them to be true. If some of them are telling lies, well, they are lies that the tellers themselves believe…which means they’re actually versions of truth.  A hashtag I see occasionally online these days reads “#nofilter.”  Stories We Tell cries foul on that notion. While the truth it first seems to be about dances farther and farther away, it slyly hands us another truth: in the stories we tell, there is always a filter. The filter is us.

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